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Having journeyed to the depths of his own emotional wounding and waded through the sludge of his childhood trauma, Sharif H. Joynson reveals what lies at the heart of all men who show up in relationship in the same way he did:

  • Emotionally unavailable

  • Focusing energy outside of the relationship

  • Unable to fully commit despite saying they want to

  • Starting relationships with intensity and then pulling away

As a guide to both approaching connection with such a man, as well empowering yourself against being drawn into the pain of chasing him, Loving The Unhealed Man may teach you as much about yourself as it does about him.

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If it's starting to feel like every guy in the world is literally *pretending* to be ready to commit... That they're profile and the pre-date messages all signalled that he's sensitive and open... Only for the truth to reveal itself a couple of d
"Maybe I don't really want kids anyway" "I guess I could try being in an open relationship" "A casual thing could be fun at least" You self-abandon in an attempt to prevent being abandoned. Which is what has been g
"Yeah, we can do Netflix and chill again" "Sure, I'd love for you to come over" "No, I love receiving texts from you when I'm at work and replying to you even though I'm busy" "Whatever you want, baby" HE I
Deep, deep down, he wants to be rescued. And you can detect that in him on some level. Because the truth is, you're both full of unconscious fantasy around being in an enmeshed relationship where it's just you two, forever and ever. The Disney
Feeling the part of you that *needs* him (not desires him) is the thing that most terrifies him. #avoidantattachment #attachmenttheory #love #relationships #dating #emotionallyunavailable #unhealedman #lovingtheunhealedman #recovery #loveaddict #sl
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This only works on a woman who is equally as insecure as the unhealed man in question. While even 'whole' and 'healthy' people will also feel an attraction to such dark type of person, their higher self will stop them from pursuing them. #avoidantat